Friday, December 31, 2010
Me and my BIG mouth!
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year to all my Bloggy Buddies!!
Oh, and I thought of something else for today's prompt:
Friday, December 31, 2010
Tell us about some of the things you experienced for the first time in 2010.
I went to Louisville, Kentucky for the first time, and met Tiffany and Ben for the first (but hopefully NOT the last!) time. All the things I did there (seeing Churchill Downs, the Louisville Slugger museum, etc.) were all things I experienced for the first time in 2010.
There, I feel better now that I have a 'happier' answer. (But, I STILL hate my job!)
This Year in WTF!?
2-for-1 Special
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Name five things you never want to put in your mouth.
Wow, it's gonna be hard to keep this G-rated for my girl, Suz. But, I'll try....
1. Cilantro!!! Most disgusting thing to ever come up out of the ground!! YUK!
2. Raisins - they're like little bugs! Gross!! (Now, if you cover them in enough chocolate, I might be able to choke a few down. The bugs, not the raisins! I kid, I kid....)
3. Menudo/Tripe/Chitterlings - whatever you call it, it's still stomach lining and intestines. Yeah....no thanks....
4. Tongue - as in beef tongue, prepared for tacos, etc. Beyond yuk!!! (Scared you there for a second, didn't I, Suz?)
5. Johnny Depp - Gag me!!! He ALWAYS looks like he needs a damn shower. Ewww!!! Well, when he doesn't look like a gay pirate, that is. Nope, even then he looks like he needs to bathe. He's just straight up NASTY!! (Sorry, Suz, I tried!)
Ok, on to today's prompt:
Friday, December 31, 2010Tell us about some of the things you experienced for the first time in 2010.
This is really going to take some serious thought. Nothing is coming to mind right now, so I think I just may need to save this as a draft and come back later.
***
OK, I just had a yummy breakfast (well, lunch actually, but since I had to literally drag my son out of bed, it was breakfast to him!) of scrambled eggs, bacon and toast. I gotta say, I still haven't thought of much for this prompt.
Sadly, the one thing that keeps popping into my head is that this year I experienced such a loathing toward my job, unlike anything I've ever experienced. The fact that I have to go back there in less than 100 hours is physically making me sick. I already have a knot in my stomach just thinking about it. I have such horrible feelings about my job this year, that I almost never mention it here, because it just stresses me out too much.
I don't really want to give any more thought or energy to my job, and I can't really think of anything else right now that I experienced for the first time this year. If I can think of something else, I'll come back later.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
I forgot to mention...
I give up...
We're having a bit of a heat wave here in ChiTown. It was in the mid-to-high 40s today. Yesterday it was in the high 30s. That means all of the snow we got last week is melting at a pretty steady rate. I'm glad I didn't take the time to shovel my enormous driveway last week, as the snow is nearly all melted now. Tomorrow, it's supposed to be in the 50s. Yuk!! Too warm for me. I'll bet my ass there will be tons of yahoos walking around in shorts tomorrow. I guarantee it!
I'm actually really worried that all that rapidly melting snow is going to cause me to get water in my basement tomorrow. We'll just have to wait and see.
Saturday, the temperature is supposed to drop to the 20s, which will mean all that standing water will turn to ice, which should make driving really awesome!! Man, I LOVE CHICAGO!!
Let's see, what else can I bore you with? Well, my car needed a jump today, which is always big fun! "Someone" left the dome light on in the car, and it was dead as a doornail this afternoon when I tried to go to my parents'. (Since there are only two of us in this house, and I KNOW it wasn't me, I'm pretty sure who the "someone" is....just sayin'...) I had to have my daddy come give my car a jump. The real kicker is that I was going to my parents' because my dad called me earlier in the day to ask me to do something for him on the computer. But, he wanted me to come there. In the windup, he had to come here, which is pretty inconvenient for him, don't you think? After we got the car going, we still went there, and ended up staying for dinner (Chinese, yay!).
I'll leave you with one last thought for the night. It's something that will make you go 'ewwww.' I grew up with this guy. We went to grade school, junior high and high school together. I used to hang out at his house, back in the day, with one of my best friends. I think the two of them kinda had a thing for each other, which seems really creepy now. Click over to see why, and then go take a shower.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Day 29
Describe what happiness means to you using just six words.
Being content with what I have.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Day 28
What's your biggest Life responsibility right now, and how are you handling it?
Well, I guess the obvious answer would be raising my son. As far as how I'm handling it, I gotta tell ya, most days, I feel like I'm doing a piss-poor job. Especially when I get a look at his grades. I can't tell you how disheartening it is, as an educator, to have a child who despises school.
I've been handling it on my own for over 15 years now, and it hasn't been easy. Most of you know that in order to send him to the private school he attends (the same one where he's getting those abysmal grades!) I had to work 3 jobs for a while. I've had to make many sacrifices over the past 15 years, but I wouldn't change a thing. My son has always come first, and I don't regret that for a minute. I don't want this post to turn into a CSJ-bash, but I'll just say that that isn't the case for him. He walked out and never looked back. He's been living his life for himself first, and Stud has always had to just fit into that life somehow.
I sometimes wonder if I'm doing my son a disservice by living my life this way. Am I teaching him to follow in his mother's footsteps and put himself last? I certainly hope not. On the other hand, am I teaching him to be narcissistic, and only put himself first? Again, I hope not. I pray that he finds a happy medium, and that I haven't completely screwed him up. So far, that seems to be the case. I am so proud of the kind, caring, generous young man he has become. I just hope it 'sticks' when he's an adult!
Wow, this post is started to get a little too serious and deep for me. I think it's time to go eat a truffle and call it a day!
Monday, December 27, 2010
A little peek at our Christmas Eve



The two dishes we ALWAYS have are the sepia and the pasta con alici. Truthfully, I don't care for the pasta, but everyone else loves it. That's why my mom always makes a second type of pasta, like this year's ravioli. To be honest, it doesn't at all taste like fish. The anchovies are sauteed with garlic (surprise, surprise, right?!) in olive oil, along with toasted bread crumbs. This "sauce" is then combined with pasta (we like angel hair). A third dish that is very traditional is bacala, (I'm not 100% sure of that spelling) or salted cod . It takes a lot of work to prepare it, though, so this year, my mother decided to go with the talapia. As long as there are 7 different fish dishes, you're good to go. But, as you can see, there are plenty of other dishes, as well. Let me reiterate - all that food was prepared for EIGHT people!!! Ah, that's the Italian way of life!
Here's a little peek at the sweets we enjoyed. This is the tray my sister baked and brought. There are at least 10 kinds of cookies here. She makes kolachkis (sp?) that would make you slap yo mama!



My mom did some baking, as well. You know, in her free time!!

It has now become a tradition to take a picture of my brother doing this every holiday. He would KILL me if he knew this incredibly unattractive photo of him was out there for all to see!
Day 27
Monday, December 27, 2010
What's the best gift you've ever received? What's the worst?
Well, this is a no-brainer! My baby boy is the GREATEST gift I've EVER received. Duh!!
The worst gift? Hmmm....that's hard, because all gifts are pretty great, right? Oh, wait!! I just thought of something!! Years ago, back when CSJ was still around (although, wait, we may have been separated, I don't remember) he, my dad and my brother-in-law had this really brilliant (aka-STUPID) idea to send me, my mom and my sister to Minnesota to The Mall of America. Seriously?!? It's like he had never met me before!!! I would rather get a root canal than go shopping at a mall. I would rather give birth again, with NO DRUGS, than go shopping at a mall!! I think you get the picture. What the hell was he thinking!? Now, for my mom and sister, this was the PERFECT gift. Those two would live at the mall if they could. But, for me? Not so much. In the wind-up, I didn't go (the two of them STILL bring it up every once in a while, and tell me what a baby and a party pooper I was, blah, blah, blah...) I think a friend of ours ending up taking my place, I don't really remember. Or care.
Sheesh! I haven't thought about that in a long time. Yes, hands down, WORST gift EVER!
Oh, and I found out what the hell yesterday was all about. Go here. :)
***It just occurred to me, while rereading this post, that both of these gifts came from CSJ. Ok, well, Stud Muffin is also a gift from God, which explains why he's so awesome. ;-)
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Wait, WHAT day is it?
Despite getting to bed at almost 3, Dorky Dog still woke me up at 6, so he could go potty. I tried to go back to sleep, but it wasn't really happening. Stud slept in til nearly 2, then he opened his gifts and left shortly after with CSJ. I headed back to my parents' house for leftovers.
Christmas Day is always so nice. It's just the 5 of us, as Stud and his cousins all go spend the day with their fathers. They usually get dropped off at my parents' later in the evening, but for the most part, it's just "us" for the day. Just like when we were kids. We eat ourselves silly, feasting on leftovers from the night before, as well as the 2 million kinds of cookies and candy that are all over the house.
Last night was even a later night than Christmas Eve. I didn't get home until after 4am this morning. I more or less forced Buster to go out, hoping he wouldn't then wake me at 6. Yeah, well, it almost worked. He waited until 7! I tried to go back to sleep, and managed to snooze from about 8-10. I stayed in bed, though, hoping to fall asleep again. I watched some TV, which is my usual Sunday m.o., and read magazines. Sleep finally grabbed me around noon, only to have the phone wake me up around 2:30ish. ARGH!!! I heard Stud start to stir around this time, probably also awakened by the phone. He came upstairs at nearly 3 to say "good morning" and I heated up the pizza my brother insisted I take home this morning. (My brother decided he wanted pizza last night at around midnight. Believe it or not, our favorite place was actually open on Christmas Day! And, it was open til 2am!!) A Mama Barocco's (stuffed pizza, with spinach and ricotta cheese, extra sauce! Yum!!!) was the perfect breakfast!
After we ate, I headed back to my cozy bed to watch some more mindless TV. (I know, I'm a loser! But, hey, I'm on vacation, people!) Before I knew it, it was 6:00, which usually means America's Funniest Home Videos, but instead, when I flipped to Channel 7, I was horrified to see the opening credits to The Sound of Music! OMG, I HATE that movie!!! So, I called my sister, who freakin' ADORES that stupid movie, and told her to turn it on. She tried to convince me to watch it, since I've never seen the whole movie at one time (only bits and pieces over the years, since it's 4 freakin' hours long!!) but she was unsuccessful. Instead, I flipped on America's Test Kitchen. That's the last thing I remember. I must have fallen into a pizza coma or something. I woke up after 9:30!
Despite all the little cat naps today, I still don't feel completely rested. Probably because it was all little bits of sleep, as opposed to one nice, long slumber, huh? I'm actually ready to go back to sleep for the night. Don't judge! Maybe I'll see if Stud is still awake, and wants to watch a movie with his mommy. That'll put me to sleep ASAP. I guess that's why he never wants to watch movies with me. I can't say that I blame him. But, right now, I don't care, I just want to sleep. I'm such a loser...
Saturday, December 25, 2010
I'm so sweepy...
Merry Christmas to all my Bloggy Buddies!!
Friday, December 24, 2010
Day 24
What's the fastest you've ever driven, where, and why?
I LOVE to drive fast, so this is actually a little hard to answer. I think the last time I can remember driving particularly fast was the last time I took Stud and his friends to Michigan. I know, I know, nice, right? Especially since I had my child, as well as other people's children, in the car!! The speedometer hit 95 without me even realizing it. We were too busy singing and 'dancing' like idiots! Ah, good times...good times....
Thursday, December 23, 2010
O Holy Night
My Girls
A little holiday humor...
Day 23
How are you interesting?
What the...?! Who writes these prompts?!
Hmmm....how am I interesting...?
I have a job from hell, that provides LOTS of unbelievable stories, that's for sure! Most people can't believe most of the stories I share, but let me assure you, I couldn't make this stuff up if I tried!!
I have the most amazing son, who, in between making me want to shank him (thank, Suz!), makes me so proud, I don't have words to describe it.
I like to think I'm kinda funny. At least my family and friends think so. ;-)
I kinda have a lot of 'book smarts.' More than once I've overheard my brother describe me to people as "the smartest person I know." He actually calls me pretty frequently to ask me questions. Usually, this happens when he's at the bar, and is arguing, I mean discussing something, with someone about whatever. Then, he'll say, "I'm calling my sister. She'll know. She's the smartest person I know." This has happened less and less now that he has an iPhone, though, cuz he can instantly look up whatever it is he's discussing. I've been replaced by modern technology. :(
I come from a wild, crazy, funny-as-hell, stereotypical Big Italian Family. That, in and of itself, makes me interesting, right? I've never met anyone who didn't love hanging out with us!
Finally, the thing that makes me MOST interesting is that I blog!! bwah hahahaha!!! I know all my Bloggy Buddies will agree with this one, since it's what makes you all so interesting, too! tee hee hee!
I think I'd like to know what YOU think makes me interesting. What brings you back here day after day? Please share!!
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
You may need to brush your teeth after this one...
(For some reason, today's prompt still isn't posted yet at NaBloPoMo. I'll be back later with that post.)
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Day 21
Do you have a special, non-traditional cure for colds or some other illness? Share it with us.
This prompt made me laugh out loud, given all the whining I've been doing lately about being sick. Obviously, my non-traditional cure is to bitch and moan on my blog, and then not do anything else!!
In all seriousness, I've NEVER been a proponent of the "better living through chemicals/pharmaceuticals" school of thought. It's VERY rare that I take any kind of medication. I've mentioned before that I endured a horrific and long labor, and then birth, without the aide of any drugs. I've had root canals without drugs. I've suffered with migraines nearly my entire life, yet I only deal with them by closing myself in a dark room and/or sleeping. I think you get the picture. I guess my non-traditional cure is to let nature take its course. So far, it's kept me alive for over 4 decades! ;-)
Monday, December 20, 2010
Day 20
If you had been born the opposite sex, what do you think would be different about your life right now?
Wow, what a prompt! I think it's possible that many things would be different. I think I might have followed in my Dad's footsteps career-wise. (That actually sounds pretty good right now.) I'd like to think I'd still be married, as I wouldn't have been the kind of crappy ass husband that CSJ was. And, luckily for my dad, I probably would be the one to carry on the family name. (Right now, despite having 13 freakin' kids in his family, NONE of his brothers' sons have children. NONE! My brother is the last hope of carrying on the name, but it's looking less and less likely as time goes on...)
Hmmm...it's still very early. I may just have to think about this some more, and come back later to add to/edit this answer.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Today's post is brought to you by the letter "M"...
Saturday, December 18, 2010
It's finished...
Next semester, the class is moving on to ceramics. I'm not really sure how he feels about that, since his 'thing' is drawing. I'm sure he'll do just great. I just hope he gives it some real effort. He's always been the kind of brat, I mean kid, who wants to do what HE wants to do, and if it's something he doesn't really want to do, he doesn't give it his full effort. This can be so exacerbating! That's all I'm going to say about that, lest I put some kind of jinx on him. :(
Friday, December 17, 2010
Visual Miscellany, Part 2
Anyway, I wanted to share some more with my Bloggy Buddies. This is one of the Christmas presents I bought myself this year.
After I bought it, I called my sister to tell her all about my awesome score, and she immediately became exasperated with me. Um, yeah...apparently she has already bought me one!! Like I said, I've been wanting one forever, and being the awesome sister that she is, she took note. When a different model went on sale at the store where she works, she snatched it up for me for Christmas from her and my mom.
She was even more annoyed because this isn't the first time this has happened. See, here's the thing. I realized years ago, after being on my own for quite some time, that the only one I need to depend on is myself. And, as part of that realization, I decided that from that point on, if there was something I wanted, I could just get it for myself, and it would be ok. There was no husband/boyfriend who was going to swoop in and surprise me with the perfect gift (which, on some level, is a gift in and of itself!). So, for the past few years, I've been getting my own Christmas presents for myself. And, surprise, surprise, I always get myself the perfect thing! tee hee!
So, back to my thoughtful sister. She's very attuned to the things I want/like, and makes mental notes to herself. Then, when she sees something she knows I would like, she picks it up. She's like that with all of us, not just me. Unfortunately, the last couple of 'big' things that she's picked up have been things I've already picked up for myself. Then, she gets stuck having to return those things, which really annoys her. Which would explain why she was so ticked when I told her about my newest toy. I convinced her that the one I bought was a better deal, since it was a nicer model, and came with a 'bonus.' (In the windup, a friend of ours actually wanted to get one of these for her daughter for Christmas, so she bought it from my sister. It was a win-win, since my sister didn't have to take it back, and our friend got it for a really great sale price.)
I finally opened the box on Monday. (I was waiting to find out if my sister returned the one she bought before I opened the one I bought. It was an excruciatingly long couple of days!)
After unpacking the coffee, I removed this from the box.
Here's the other Christmas present I bought myself.
Ok, some more random nonsense. I've been meaning to share this for over 6 months now. I can NOT believe I found this shirt for my darling son. I literally laughed out loud in the middle of the store!
Day 17
Describe yourself using ten words that start with the letter P.
These are going to be in no particular order, other than how they pop into my head:
1. plump
2. pleasant
3. proud (mother)
4. penguin-lover
5. people-pleaser
6. parent
7. patient
8. passionate
9. playful
10. pack rat
Sheesh, that was a little harder than I thought it would be. Let's see if I can think of 10 things I'm NOT...
1. pushy
2. phony
3. perfect
4. pregnant
5. pianist
6. pampered
7. peculiar
8. pesty
9. petty
10. pompous
Ok, how 'bout 10 things I wish I were:
1. physically fit
2. powerful
3. pregnant
4. partner
5. published
6. protected
7. performer
8. photogenic
9. PhD
10. penguin
Hmmm....maybe I should try and get some much-needed sleep, cuz based on this drivel, I'm obviously slap-happy right now. Besides the delightful congestion in my chest, which has given me the cough from hell, which has caused me to have such violent coughing fits that I've wet my pants about 3 times a day for the past few weeks (oh, no, I'm NOT kidding!) and given me what I believe is a hernia, I have been up most of the night because I can't breathe, either, now. My nose is alternating between running and being stuffed up. Good times, good times.... It's just after 5 am, and I've given up. There will be no rest for me, at least not if I plan to lie down. As I sit here in bed, I can't decide which is louder - the wheezing coming from my chest, or Buster's snoring. I'm gonna have to go with Buster on this one. Why does this Dorky Dog insist on sleeping (and snoring!) right next to me!? Jeez, no wonder I can't sleep...
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Day 16
What's the best thing someone could say to you right now, right this minute?
"You're hired!" And, no, I don't care who says it, or what the job is!!
* It seems, after M's comment, that I need to clarify something. I still have my job, but I desperately would like a NEW one, that's all. Sorry to confuse you! :(
Email of the Day, Part 2
This, too, came from my dad today. Interesting, for sure!
I actually remember my parents, and the other adults in our family, buying each other cartons of cigarettes for Christmas, in decorated boxes just like this ad. They actually bought each other cartons of cigarettes for most occasions, like birthdays, etc.